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My Kind of Man, My Kind of Woman

October 16, 2012

 

Word count:6481

Genre:relationships/Gender issues/Christian Relationships

Strapline

The happiest and most successful marriage exist when a born-again Christian man, chaste by sexuality, marries a woman of the same kind

Synopsis

This is a Christian-based classic that is aimed at giving prospective christian brothers and sisters, using the suggested compatibility of an Ever-Chaste Christian brother and sister, a concrete stance on relationship and marriage concerning the right partners.

It is a relationship and marriage based classic that explains the distinction between the world’s system approaches to marriage and relationship issues; their ‘obscurities’ and shortcomings and the christian approaches; their successes and price tags, regarding who is the Mr. Right or Mrs. Right.Interestingly, it leaves readers with a choice;following the christian approach system or sticking to the programmed to fail system of the world.

It is also dedicated to those seeking for success in their relationships and marriages with their spouses

 

 

Chapter Sample (My Kind of Man)

Chapter 1

Wealth/Money

When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?

Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them’. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!

A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she’s in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?

The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:

Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world’s prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society’s `who is who’ came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.

Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns’ as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince’s financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.

It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously cateringfor herself, Vince and her two-month- old bay, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia’s strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.

As time progressed, Lucia couldn’t afford to unnecessary couldn’t afford to foot the home’s utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.

As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?

More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they’ve been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl’ to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.

However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries’.

An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil’ by prioritizing wisdom; embracingtrue love instead of money.

Here, the term of `wealth’ is synonymous with `money’.

 

Chapter Sample (My kind of woman)

Chapter 1

Wealth/Money

When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?

Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them’. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!

A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she’s in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?

The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:

Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world’s prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society’s `who is who’ came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.

Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns’ as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince’s financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.

It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously cateringfor herself, Vince and her two-month- old bay, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia’s strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.

As time progressed, Lucia couldn’t afford to unnecessary couldn’t afford to foot the home’s utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.

As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?

More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they’ve been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl’ to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.

However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries’.

An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil’ by prioritizing wisdom; embracingtrue love instead of money.

Here, the term of `wealth’ is synonymous with `money’.

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